5 Signs Your Spouse is Not Cheating on You

Is your spouse cheating on you? Have you noticed unexplained changes in his/her behavior recently? Are they spending much more time at work? Have you noticed a definite change in their routine at home? Do they seem preoccupied?

Although these are classic signs of a cheating spouse, you can't assume that your partner is having an affair based on those facts alone. There could be very reasonable explanations for a change in your spouse's behavior. Perhaps they've been given new responsibilities at work that require more overtime and business trips. Maybe your spouse is experiencing personal problems that they have not discussed with you. There could be many reasons, other than infidelity, that could cause such a change in behavior.

If you are determined to confront your spouse and accuse them of cheating without any real evidence, you could be putting your relationship in jeopardy. Once you approach your partner with such a serious allegation, there is no going back.

Here are five signs that your spouse is NOT cheating on you:

1. If you ask them questions regarding how much overtime they are working or how that business trip went, they can give you an immediate answer. You can tell that they are likely telling the truth because their speech is seamless and it doesn't appear that they have to think about what they say first.

2. They seem very natural at home; as if they have nothing to hide. They will take all their phone calls in front of you, and they don't appear to be hiding anything when they are on the computer. They do not receive mysterious calls on their cell phones, and then leave the room to take them.

3. Their basic personality does not change. Most people that are involved in an affair will go through wild mood swings as they are trying to burn the candle at both ends. A cheating spouse can become very agitated or very happy from one moment to the next for no apparent reason.

4. You can surprise them by taking them out to lunch or dinner at the last minute, and they will respond positively instead of getting angry because you didn't give them enough notice.

5. They are willing to share everything openly. This means that they are not secretive about their computer password and don't mind if you know it or use their logon. Similarly, they don't mind sharing their cell phone if necessary. A cheating spouse will never leave their cell phone unattended - and if they do, you can be sure that everything has been deleted and it is squeaky clean.

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By Jamie Roberts